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Hi, my name is Janine and I’m an ordinary girl just like you.
Here on The Plain Blonde I’m sharing everything about personal development, self care and a positive mindset to help you feel good and create a life that makes you happy every single day.

Because you deserve to live your dream life! Read more about me here.

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MAKE YOURSELF PROUD!✨
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That’s my motto that I’m living by every single day.
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In the past I was unconsciously trying to make other people proud, even if it didn’t necessarily make me happy. Everything changed when I switched my mindset from making others proud to making myself proud.
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Why?
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Because if you focus on making yourself proud, it’s more about what you want instead of doing what other people want/expect you to do. And it’s more about doing what makes you happy instead of what would make other people happy.
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Making yourself proud means leaving your comfort zone.
It means having the courage to speak up and put yourself out there.
But most of all it means doing things for you.
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And that’s all that counts.❤️

🆘What to do when fears and doubts take over!
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We all experience doubts and fears when we want to try something new or have a great idea. At first you’re excited, but then the emotions kick in. You’re not sure if you can do it, you doubt that you have what it takes, or you’re afraid to give it a try.
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Here’s what you can try:
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💕Feel it and look at it with compassion and kindness towards yourself. Don’t get frustrated or angry at yourself for being afraid or doubting yourself. It’s okay that you feel this way, it’s human.
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⛈Ask yourself: What’s the worst thing that could happen? You probably already have some worst case scenario’s in your head. Are they rational or irrational? How would you deal with it if your worst case scenario would come true? Thinking about it helps to rationalize your feelings.
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💬Talk about your fears and doubts. You can make your fears and doubts so big in your head. Talking about it helps to see how exaggerated your fears and doubts really are. It changes your perspective.
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You got this!❤️

When was the last time you did something because y

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